At next year's European Member Care Consultation (http://www.membercare.eu/emcc-10/) I have the privilege of doing a plenary on "Going and Growing as a Single". It's a great opportunity to tell a wide range of church and mission agency executives and member care workers how they can support the spiritual and emotional growth of singles as we go in mission. So what would be the message you would like to give them? What has been your experience of 'growing'? Has your growth been facilitated or hindered by your agency?